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Reuven, my boy 5th birthday


Times flies Reuven , 5 years has pass. You have grow taller and handsome and cheeky. My happy antidotes.

Although mummy and daddy are not together, we always love you. Daddy this year sing a birthday song with my guitar as you requested and I know you like it. 🙂 this year have to celebrate abit early due to your mum schedule.

Teacher told me today u are really happy and excited about today celebration. 🙂

Keep smiling Reuven and you forever will be blessed with happiness and joy. Always with you and love you , daddy. 🙂

Posted in Age of 4, Reuven Loo Growing up

throw back – daddy 1st birthday song from Reuven


Before i fly to Taiwan , Reuven said he want sing a birthday song and cut birthday cake with me. he is really a sweet boy. ^^ and not forgetting his yeye present too. ^^



then he also prepare a present for me. haha his drawing as a present. ^^ he said he love boat and he would like me to have it. and we colour and draw in his language. 🙂



thank you Reuven,  Daddy is really happy and will always remember this moment . A thoughtful and sweet boy that i have. 🙂


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Getting a present for Reuven’s cousin birthday Axon! …


last week was out and along shopping for Reuven cousin birthday present and Reuven loo was present. I was thinking will he be unbalance if I get for his cousin and did not get for him?

I still go ahead and see how it goes.  when we reach the shop.

daddy: Reuven daddy today I am shopping a present for your cousin  present as his birthday is next week. will you help me choose what he might like ?

Reuven: blur look…

daddy: ( think he might be wondering why I did not get for him ?)

daddy love you ya and just like I buy you toys and so many toys, and your mummy, Yeye Nana and gei-ma too. buying present is sharing of loves and joy too. I last week just brought you one so today no ya. 🙂

Reuven: he knob his head and said let me see what he like , I help to choose. then he run around . and pickup this i think he will like this!

deep down in my heart , I am surprised and feel great. he is so sensible and sweet. i got this urge just want to buy him another toy for a reward!  but I hold back (it is really not easy).

I want him to be able to accept with no rewards in return, not everytime goes out sure have toys , take for granted and able to accept no and handle disappointed feeling.

to Reuven:

with things taken as apperciation and not in a mind; for exchange in return when complete some task and ‘only can accept yes’as his standard answer, I believe this will help you in term of viewing life perspective and be happier.

it is not easy for daddy to hold back, buying a toy is easy and make you satisfied however bringing you with the right value and sharing is the key.

you are awesome my boy ! ^.^ your daddy /buddy.

and today just attend my newphew birthday celebration in school. abit late reach there, so sorry. and he call me so loud when i reach  Gu zhai! hahah and my boy also  Daaaaaaaddddddyyy… hahah both come and hug me . oh my.. melt. LOL 🙂 they always kill me instantly with all these. 🙂

and i also look like a boy/ buddy hiding behind them . hahah 🙂 heart so sweet.








Posted in Age of 4, Reuven Loo Growing up

Reuven expressing his understanding and love…


finally in the evening time. Reuven finally knock out in the bus. as he is so tired…however we are just 2 bus stop away from the main station.

he slept for a while then I wake up him up, he open his arms for a carry…

daddy: Reuven I am sorry, I am not able to carry you. my back still ache. maybe you help me walk for a while? papa find a place for u to rest?

Reuven : no words. and he hold my hand open his tired eyes and go with steps along  to alight the train. think everything went so perfect that there are a seat near by in the interchange and I told him we can rest there.


without haste, and peaceful manner , we walk slowly to the seat and he sleep…

you can feel how much grateful and happy I am at this moment.  🙂