Today laye evening, Reuven throw tantrum and very rude. Keep insisting his way to demand to bring down the bubble gun to.the playground.
I told him ,next time as I already bring skate scooter for him.
Reuven : Now ! I want Now !
Daddy: tomorrow, I will bring all right. I know u just saw one kid play the bubble gun…
Reuven : still insist and keep demanding, throw tantrum just becos no bubble gun.
Deep in his world I know he just want to play, and I am already prepared to give in.however not in this manner.
Daddy : today going to be the first cane , let’s go home.
Reuven : daddy no…
Then I talk to him with a little cane on my hand . I said I am going to cane you, you know why?
Reuven : he understand and he also admit he wrong.
Daddy: so daddy going to beat your left and right palm . Stretch out.
Reuven : daddy pain . No..
Daddy: you know this is wrong and u got to faced the punishment. This is something we must learn.
Reuven : stretch out his palm..
Daddy : just tapped gentlely…
Reuven: look puzzled…
Daddy: I love u Reuven, everyday I also want to be your best friend and your buddy. I just want to hug you. Could you help daddy ?
Reuven : nodded and give me a hug.
I did not take any pictures of his cries.
As I do not want he to remember or myself to rememeber this. Just want him to know sometime I am strict, is to share values and strengthen his good principle that aid him in future. I want to be nice daddy and not monster. 🙂
Somehow or rather, I feel today he has grown up a little. 🙂